There is One who knows you utterly. He is not the same one as THE ONE constructed in the great American spin machine. He is, however, the One whose very essence builds compatibility where the greatest incompatibility of all exists; between God and Man. He makes us able to change in the most profound way, in holiness (whole-ness), growing into the creature He intended us to be. He can manage the mutual change of a marriage and bring about authentic compatibility. Without Him couples are merely making sure their deck chairs match while they temporarily enjoy their cruise on Titanic.